Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Getting Answers

Gabe has his cardiac cath yesterday. The procedure was supposed to last an hour, but it ended up lasting three hours. They had a hard time getting the wire around his shunt. We have decided that when they give us a time frame, we just need to multiply it by three. That seems to be the formula so far. We were at the hospital for eleven hours and we were all so tired when we got home. Gabe has been a little cranky today, which is to be expected. The worst part of the whole thing is that he has to lay flat and he can't move his leg for six hours after the procedure. If anyone has any ideas for how to keep a toddler still that long, I am all ears.

The doctor said that the pulmonary artery has grown, but he doesn't expect it to get any bigger with this shunt. That leaves us with a couple options; the first is that they put in a bigger shunt and way for the artery to grow or they go ahead and do the repairs. He thinks that the repairs will allow more blood flow to the right PA, which will encourage growth, although, they will never be equal. He thinks the larger shunt won't make much difference and it will, obviously, add another surgery. The team conferences on Monday morning, so they will discuss it and call us. I am really hoping for just one more surgery for now, but I also want to do what is best for Gabe. It is looking like January for the procedure. I thought I was ready, but after seeing him yesterday, I don't know. He was more upset than I have EVER seen him during recovery. It was really hard to watch. It was even harder to hand him off to a the nurses this time. I just keep thinking about how much better he will be when this is all over. The doc said that we can expect NO blueness and we shouldn't see him getting so out of breath anymore. I completely trust the doctors and I feel that he is in great hands.

All in all, there is so much to be thankful for this year. Gabe still has a tough road, but he is going to be ok. We are so blessed that he is our son. We are also so blessed to have so many family and friends supporting us and loving our family. Thanks to all! Enjoy the holiday!!!!

Ludlums

Friday, November 13, 2009

Next step

Things are going pretty well here. Gabe has now added dog (or duck, we aren't sure) and ball to his repetoire. Speech therapy starts next week, so I am sure we will be hearing much more very soon. We are so excited for his first holiday season. Not to mention, he turns two the week before Christmas.

As far as his health goes, he continues to gain weight and grow. The last time we were at the doctor, he made it to the charts. Before, he was too small and the last visit he was at 10th percentile for height and 25th percentile for weight. He is still getting really winded, which concerns the doctors. He is scheduled for another angiogram on November 24. They will know more about how things are going at that point. Then we will work on a plan for his big surgery. They still want to hold off until after flu season, so assuming things are going ok, he will have it in the spring.

Not much else to report at this time. I promise, I will put up some new pictures this weekend. I will also post as soon as we get the information from the angiogram.

Thanks for the thoughts!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Still progessing

I have been terrible about posting! It is nice that some people have asked for more, so here goes. Yesterday was our first Halloween and Gabe was the cutest penguin ever. We went to a few houses of friends, but I don't really think Gabe "got" the trick or treating. He enjoyed seeing friends, but was very glad to get out of the costume at the end of the night.

We went to see the cardiologist on Friday because Gabe is still having problems with getting winded. The doctor says that there is no reason for him to be so winded and the echo cardiogram they did on Friday looks good. His right pulmonary artery has benefited from the shunt put in during the August surgery. It started at 2.7 mm and the last time, it was at 4.1 mm. Friday is measured 4.9 mm. The cardiologist still wants to put the big surgery off longer, so Gabe will get bigger and stronger. Not only that, he would like to wait until the flu season is over. He and the surgeon do want to have another angiogram done within the month. That way, they will know exactly what is going on and we can come up with our plan. Gabe is thriving and it doesn't seem like this next surgery is as pressing as it was before the shunt was put in. I am guessing we will be doing this in the spring. Gabe now weighs 24.2 pounds, which is almost 7 pounds that we have put on him in 4 months.

It is amazing to see how great he is doing. Not only is he growing like a weed, he is learning so much. He says more words everyday. Brian and I are always singing to him and yesterday in the car, he just starting with "row row row" just like the beginning of Row Row Row Your Boat. The first three words were as far as he got, mostly because he couldn't stop clapping and cheering for himself. He has also gotten very lovey. He likes to give hugs and kisses to everyone. He will occasionally grab your face with two hands and give you the biggest kiss. That is the best!

We are so excited for the holidays this year. It is going to be so exciting to experience them through his eyes. We also have his birthday coming up the week before Christmas. It sounds like the cardiac cath will be around Thanksgiving and I will keep everyone posted. I will also make sure that I get some more pictures posted. Additionally, I will try to not be such a stranger. Thanks for all of the continued thoughts and prayers.

Ludlums